After A While
After awhile you learn
the subtle difference between
holding a hand and chaining a soul
and you learn
that love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't always mean security.
And you begin to learn
that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises
You begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes ahead
with the grace of an adult not the grief of a child.
And you learn
to build your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground is
too uncertain for plans
and futures have ways of falling down
in mid-flight.
After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns
if you get too much
so you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure,
you really are strong,
and you really do have worth.
And you learn
And you learn
With every goodbye, you learn.....
1971 Veronica A. Shoffstall
4 comments:
This has always been one of my favorites too. I have copies of it printed out and give to friends now and then.
When I get home I need to print this out along with the ham balls recipe. This is wonderful! Anne
I sent a copy of this to my daughter.
My ma used to put up clippings from "Dear Abby/Ann" on the fridge. I can remember one that was a list about what parents teach children. It was themed like "Teach a child ___" and he "Will Grow To Be ____". Hilarious. One of the lines read:
Teach a child RIDICULE and he will grow up to be ASHAMED
I guess they didn't pay too much attention to that one. Sigh. I'm over it.
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